I felt that my last post was very effective in getting my points/opinions out. With that said, I shall continue this time around as well; except, this time won't be as random. I would first like to say that it feels damn good to be back on the regular scheduled programming. Fasting is over and back to the norm feels great...again.
There have been plenty of situations in the not so distant past that makes me wonder why I even associate with certain individuals. Others have also made clear of their hidden agendas. These things do not, and I repeat, do not go passed me without detection. One thing people in my life have yet to accomplish is to successfully lie. What is a successful lie? A lie that continues until you (the person telling the lie) owns up to it. Plenty have been arrogant - very cocky - in deluding themselves into thinking they can fool me. This mostly happens to females who have lied plenty of times to me and without any real effort I always expose them. This leads to "two-faced" individuals if I may.
That's right, the masters of the 'double standard'. The men and women who (in slang terms) act as if their shit don't smell. It's all from the root of all evil: ignorance. Some of us can't help it, some of us can but choose not to. Shame on both, really. One is worse than the other and the only way to battle ignorance is through blunt knowledge and 'know-how'. Only one problem when trying to make someone understand their faults, they tend to feel they are being attacked. This is where one's communication skills has to be near expert (such as my skills). They have to be close enough to trust you with almost anything. To my friends and family, I am their personal and private Swiss bank account (BMV). You know the type of off-shore accounts that are vaulted up and not touched by anyone but you? I have so many secrets in this mind it'd rival any state secret and cause a stir up in state security. OK. I exaggerated a little.
Before getting into any of that, remember that avoiding the whole situation is the best thing. Getting into a confrontation you didn't want to in the first place will only make it worse.
Now for the Gentleman Tip of the Day:
- This is specifically for the men -
This may sound very harsh but it's straight to the point.
- When you are a single man and choose to hit up the clubs make sure the women you are hitting on are not married. Seriously, don't be stupid. In fact, there is an entire art behind flirting and trying to woo a woman. It reaches a point when it is no longer accepted as flirting but simply, charming. Something I have mastered at a very young age. I'm not arrogant, just stating the facts. If that woman is married yet welcomes the flirting shame on her trifling ass. That's right, I said it. You know what? If you are married, you shouldn't be hanging out at a club period! That's just asking for trouble. 99% of the time a club with alcohol well end up with at least one fight by the end of the night. As the old saying goes, "You better check yourself before you wreck yourself." What are you thinking of doing at a club in the first place? A club is not for couples, let alone for married couples.
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