This specific post is dedicated to a very close and loving friend of mine, Shamima. She is in many ways a muse to my work in design and writing. In turn, she's inspired me on this specific characteristic called: CLASS. Walking through life with grace and obtaining a high level of class is the way to go, especially when it comes to a gentleman. This is for both the gentleman and the proper ladies.

In any given situation, it is very important to always take a step back and read the environment you are about to step into. Most people make the most common mistake by diving into something without consulting to themselves and not giving a thought to the consequences. Every little thing I discuss in my blog is the most basic lessons you have to learn in life and those same basic terms are forgotten by the day. These basic terms and teachings are being projected in the most logical and practical forms. There is nothing complex about anything I discuss, you have to read carefully and practice it in your every day life. Someone once asked me you should be a life consultant and charge people. I responded in saying that's just stupid. All those "self-help" people out there motivation speakers and what not are making money out of the most simple and basic teachings you get out of life itself. I help people to understand and use the abilities they already have. It's not genuinely helping when you are charging people like your some psychiatrist. I'm 'revealing' all of these processes and tips because you (as the reader) already know most of this, you have simply gone off track and have made the most basic things complex.

There are many outcomes to a single situation. Regardless of the situation or outcomes (consequences), you must always behave yourself with pure class. Remember to never be provoked by someone who is directly or indirectly insulting you. The number one rule in class is that no one should ever be able to lure you into anything. This goes for those stupid petty arguments you can fall into. Some go out their way to insult you - directly or indirectly - but you must not, under any circumstance, respond to it. This type of mistake feeds those ignorant beings who have serious self-esteem issues. No matter the age of these people, they still believe they are back in high school and playing characters on Gossip Girl. A person can be in their mid 30s and still believe they are the leader of a high school clique. Get real, grow up. And of course, these individuals are so caught up in their self-involved bubble that they will never look in the mirror and admit to their wrong doings. What is the best way to deal with these type of people and situation?

Excuse me for my being blunt, just don't give a shit. Someone insult your character or your mother? Who cares? You know the truth and so do many other people who care for you. I don't just mean a few people (family related), I'm talking about a small population of open-minded caring human beings. You are a grown adult. It's sad and very pathetic to see older women behave so poorly and immature that even my little sister (who happens to be half the other woman's age) can point out and say, "Wow! That's just pathetic." It has nothing to do with age, it's always in the person's mind. In any case, you should always act your age. Leave the immaturity to the adolescent children. Class is walking and not making a single gesture to the other person's pathetic attempt to bring you down. I don't care if it's my family members or acquaintances, I've always reserved myself in the room of class. The moment you show them attention is the moment you have found yourself down to their very low level. I'm sure most of you have encountered these type of people and forces all over. Talking trash on Facebook, really? How old are you again? Xanga, MySpace, or Facebook, doesn't matter what it is, why are you wasting your time typing trash on online social networks? By the way, that was not a plug-in for the movie.

What they fail to realize is that they are making an ass out of themselves by behaving the way they choose to. With class, you don't have to worry because you are already on top of your game. Brush of your shoulders, ladies and gentleman. Stay classy not trashy.