Ah, yes, Monday mornings. Don't you just love them? (sarcasm)...It's that beautiful day of the week where the majority of us begin our labor. But hold on, who said it had to be boring? Usually, Mondays are bland and tends to drag a lot. It's the first day of the week that makes you want to reach Friday already. I find that this post is very appropriate for a bland Monday.
There are a few things that gentleman, well, men in general need to learn. There are a few steps that can drive a proper lady mad with passion. We all are aware of the amazing abilities that women have; one of those abilities being the power of seduction. What most women do not realize is that men have the same abilities. I, for one, can tell you plenty of stories of how it all goes down. That would take hours and this is no personal journal or diary. I can tell you certain actions that you can take in order to run the sultry course of seducing women. Before attempting any of this, remember to always do your homework - do the research. When I say research, I don't mean text books. I mean observe the woman, see how she behaves and see what type of person she is. Once you get that out of the way, you will have a clear vision of how difficult it will be to seduce this certain female.
- The first is always the most important because it's the introduction in the beginning stages of your attempt to seduce. If you are a good looking fellow, this will be the easiest step of all. You always have to look the part before you take it on and act upon it. Dress well, look good, and keep that swagger. When you approach the young lady (make sure you actually know her), you will see the first sign of her being drawn: her smile. I, honestly, could take a job as a profiler for the FBI or CIA; I can tell plenty of things simply by looking at a woman's smile. When you see her smile and she shows you her pearly whites, you are on the right track, my friend. Don't worry if you don't see her smile from ear to ear because a slight smirk is a sign of a slightly conservative woman welcoming you in. That smirk and her eyes sizing you up is as good.
- Tease her from a distance. In a conversation, know when to drop subtle hints of her attractive traits. Humor plays a large role in this process of seduction. Soften her up a little by being funny but don't act like a clown. You have to know how to tell her she is beautiful without exaggerating it. At times, you should compliment her and in a sudden stop in the middle of the sentence and pause. She, in some way, will wonder why you've stopped or ask you bluntly to keep going. Remember, she doesn't have to speak to be drawn in into your genuine compliment. After the slight pause, continue to finish your sentence. She has to believe you are enchanted by her simply by being in her presence.
- Your smile is as important as hers. You have to let her know that you are excited to see her right off the bat. Unlike her, do not expose your teeth. Smirking and smiling humbly will keep the mystery of what you are about to say or do next. As the time goes on, you can gradually let yourself go and smile all you want - make sure it's purely genuine.
- Touching is a very sensitive topic. A little nudge while fooling around is OK. Nothing more than that because that is just pushing it (no pun intended). If all is going well, she will be tempted to touch you. Those light back hands she throws across your chest or your arm is a very good sign. It means your innocent flirting is working very well. Also, note her physical distance from you; always keep your eye on how close she is sitting next to you. I'm sure you all know the difference if she literally has to get up from where she is sitting to hit you...this usually means you have pretty much failed. Go home, save yourself the embarrassment.
- Whenever you encounter a lovely woman the first thing that attracts you to her is the obvious looks. This is all down to science. What most people do not know, it is much more scientific than you believe. Scientist have studied that human beings, above all, are creatures of this planet. This means we have the same animal instincts as, for example, a tiger or lion. Many male animals are attracted to a female from their scent. We, believe it or not, are strongly attracted to a man or woman's body odor. This happens to be one of the main reasons why we must remain hygienically aware. With all that said, make sure you dab an attractive fragrance a couple of times behind your ears and a touch of it where your throat and your chest meet. Women can easily pick up on scents and automatically love it or hate it. Make sure your cologne is on the easy side, stay away from all that musk and abrasive scents.
- Be close but do not get too close. Those very cheesy and cliche 'I'm yawning and stretching' let me put my arm around you stuff...simply is unattractive. The less contact the more seduction. You are not in bed nor in a dimmed lit theater. A true gentleman keeps his hands to himself at all times in the company of women who are not your significant other. If they are your friends, it's a completely different environment. When you are seducing a woman you are attracted and interested in, let your facial expressions and your words do the work. Do not touch unless she blatantly invites you to.
- The way you listen is actually a turn on to her. Besides the talking and non-touching steps, the way you give her your undivided attention is very important. Yes, you can seduce her the way you listen to her. Always look into her eyes while smiling softly. Rest your chin on your hand while you once in a while graze your bottom lip with your finger. If she is completely awake, she will pick up on your slight hints. The light glances you give to her lips, the resting of your shoulders, and leaning your neck at an angle (while smiling) are all little things she will quickly pick up on. Just be careful not to put it on too heavy, otherwise, that is just creepy. It's the little details that will lure her in.
There are plenty of ways to seduce for both men and women in different situations and environments. This was the process a man can take out in public. Do not forget the art of seduction is the allure you project, it is not the act of sexual intimacy. It's being sexy, not having sex. Don't try to undress her with your eyes because that usually means you have other agendas and she is the one actually doing the seducing.
- Gentleman Tip of the Day -
Since we are on the topic of seduction. Do not, seriously, mix two different fragrances. There are little mistakes you can commit that are hugely significant. The idea of blasting Axe body spray all over you and then push some cologne on you is a huge mistake. There is a reason why top brands charge so much for their fragrances. Not only are they unique to the smell but the ingredients are specifically mixed for that one type of fragrance. You run the risk of canceling out both the body spray and your cologne. And when using your cologne, make sure you dab or spray only once in the places I have mentioned in one of the steps above. Also, make sure you have two different types of colognes. Once again, it has to do with science. For the day time, make sure your cologne has a soft smell - a heavy abrasive scent is a put-off. During the night, when the temperature drops, use a heavier aggressive cologne - this will fight off the temperature from absorbing your scent. Whatever you do, do not spray on your clothes. I'm sure the cleaners have made sure your clothes are easy to be around so don't be silly on smearing that cologne all over you.
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