I want to let all of you know that there is nothing wrong in acting on those sexual urges. But just like everything else in life, there is a time and place for those urges to take course. There is such a thing of being classy and naughty at the same time. Women are notorious for this. I have observed and experienced way too much of this behavior with women. The thing is we find it acceptable for women to do what they do. The main factor here is the art of deception. A lady in the streets but a freak in the bed. That right there is thee woman every man truly fantasizes about and rightfully so. You want to have that raw passionate love making with that certain woman but keep her to yourself. The biggest turn-on isn't really the love making, it's the ability of that same woman to act as a proper lady everywhere else. It takes serious skills to pull that off.
If you tend to sleep around, you will automatically be labeled as a "slut" (this is regarding women of course). Men do what they do and are applauded for it. This is completely wrong and quite unfair. I am never too shy to tell a man straight up that he is showing tendencies of a man-whore. A true gentleman should always be a 'one-woman-man'. If you are still a bachelor, then feel free to charm women with honest intentions not just trying to dive into their pants...or skirts for that matter. Men are as bad as women and women are as good as men. It's a two-way street, ladies and gentlemen. Do not ever think otherwise in where one sex is better than the other. We all have our faults but can refrain from those actions when we want.
A legitimate research shows that men prefer and are turned on by Victoria's Secret models over Playboy. In magazines like Playboy, you are already expect and know what the contents will show. The thing about super-models (who do not go nude) are more attractive and alluring because everyone wants to know the contents behind the bra and panties or lingerie. It's the tearing of the gift-wrap that excites men not the already exposed presents.
- Gentleman Tip of the Day -
The last post I discussed or shared knowledge about shoes. Now, you want a belt to match. Another one of the more important accessory a man should have. In fact nowadays, belts are essential to what you wear. It's the same as putting on a tie at a formal event, you just have to have it on. Just like shoes there are certain types of belts as well. Learn to get to know them as well.
- The all classic black belt - This is the most basic of them all and the one you always should have in your wardrobe. This style of belt can be used with pants and jeans. Remember, you still have to match with the colors of your shoes (see earlier post). Most of these kinds of belts will have that solid strong buckle to it. Too big of a buckle and you can call yourself a cowboy and move to Arizona so be careful.
- Thin-black belt - Now, this pretty little thing is pure sheik and class. I prefer to wear these when it comes to wearing full on suits. Just like the belt itself the buckles are sleek and sexy. Always remember, the more simplicity it has in its design the more elegant it is. If you want one of these, I recommend getting a designer's belt. And let's face it, you can definitely afford a designer belt; it's not as bad as watching your wallet when it comes to shoes.
- Brownish belt - Like I said, you have to match your shoes. When I say brownish, I do not mean a chocolate brown. Just like other colors other than black and white, there are different shades of brown. For example, if you were to wear oxblood colored or cognac colored shoes you'd go with a subtle solid brown. Think of it as trying to match the color of someone's brown eyes. Whatever shade of color your shoes are try to wear a shade or two lighter for your belt.
- A beige belt - This is a bit less formal. In fact, it's more casual than anything. This style though is not as flexible as the others. This color is more to do with the clothes you are wearing and not too much on what you are wearing on your feet. You can wear these with fall color chinos (earthy toned colors). You can even strap this one on with a linen suit - more of the beige shade of course.
- The casual belt - Just as it says, it's casual. Feel free to wear whatever you want with these non-leather belts. Not matching your shoes isn't a big deal with these style of belts but don't do anything extreme to where people can point and laugh. Use your somewhat fashion sense to avoid embarrassing yourself. The fabric used here is mostly cotton so do be careful where you tend to keep these belts. You can wear these with shorts and slacks alike. Make sure your entire outfit is casual or this belt will look completely out of place.
- The different black belt - These aren't as simple and plain as the classic belt but it still shows the sleekness when worn with formal attire. These are a bit tricky, unlike the others. The stitching is obviously different and the type of shoes you are wearing has to be a huge consideration. There are lot of different designs stitched into these belts. You can Google search anything of these belts but for this one specifically you can click here to actually see what I'm talking about: cross-stitch belt
Once again, just like the types of shoes, it's good to have all of these different types of belts. It's OK if you have the basic black and brown belts, that's what matters the most. When it comes to jeans, I prefer not to wear a belt but if you do tend to, make sure it's a thick (or wide) belt. The thing about jeans is that you really don't want to wear a belt because it tends to distract the person from the wash and design of the jeans. Trousers and or dress pants (flat-fronts) are simple with intricate stitching that cannot be seen at first glance so wearing a belt will only compliment it. Stay away from those huge buckles; unless you are a real cowboy with old school western attire, don't even think about it. A rule to always remember: If you are going to tuck your shirt in, it is nearly mandatory to wear a belt. The belt is not to only slightly tighten up the pants to your waist, it's almost as if it's saving your waist from being completely naked. When it comes to suits or formal wear these rules should always be followed with no compromise.
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